Maybe it's obvious, but it's harder because you're working with CHILDREN. They are unpredictable, primarily because their logic and decision-making isn't the same as that of an adult. This morning, everyone was getting ready as normal. Vic was preparing for work, Betsy got dressed for basketball camp, Lola got dressed to...be Lola, and I prepped gear and got dressed to take Lola for a ride after dropping Betsy at camp. Except at about 30 minutes to departure, Betsy said she felt bad and didn't want to go to camp. Why didn't we find out last night? Why didn't Betsy tell us before everyone was ready to walk out the door? She's a six year old, that's why.
She had been up several times in the night "taking care of business", and things weren't happening correctly. She was obviously scared, frustrated, and maybe in pain. We assumed the worst, because if she wanted to skip camp, then it was serious. Vic left for work, promising to call the pediatrician on her way, and I loaded the kids to drive to the doctor's office. The cycling gear was left on the counter, chilled water bottles in the fridge, and the early morning ride was cancelled for good reason.
I won't share the nitty-gritty details, but Betsy is fine. Since we spent the morning at the doctor's office, it's too hot to ride (97F and 36% RH as I type) with a toddler in a trailer. So instead, I mowed the grass and edged, and since we have a relatively large lawn and a tiny 20" mower, this was plenty workout for me. Vic offered to let me ride this afternoon, but I think I'll just cook dinner and take Lola out for a ride in the morning. That's what daddies do.
P.S. There's a 50 mile race this weekend in Harlingen. I've been asked if I'll race, and I'm tempted...more on that later.
8 comments:
I think the whole kid thing is the toughest. Very rarely do you get anyone at work freak out and cry over simple things like you have to deal with when you stay at home. It's emotionally draining and fun all at the same time. I hope you get to race this weekend. Sounds like a good time.
You should race this weekend. If for no other reason then because you can.
I envy you dude. I miss the kids and taking care of the lawn.
Even being at home on days off with no children, the day can just whiz by before you even think twice and instead of rolling out for a leisurely ride, you end up having to schedule one in......Good luck in your weekend race.
How did you become a stay-at-home Dad? As I have stated before, I am a stay-at-home Dad too and have been for the past five years or so. It sure has it's moments to say the least! Aside from the pay being horrible, I wouldn't trade it for anything. It's been so great getting to spend my time with the kids; watching them learn and grow.
As for the upcoming race: do it. We stay-at-home Dads deserve some time to ourselves doing things we enjoy.
@Ohiorider Laid off, spouse went back to work. Once I get a job, who knows? Probably daycare.
@Mike J True
@SBJ I think you're right.
@Bryan Thanks for the perspective. Your situation will get better. Hang in there.
@Buttsy We somehow find a way to fill up our days no matter what!
Love the whole role swapping thing. It's great. Hope you get to race on the weekend!
Race this weekend? Hmmm, that looks to be about 5 hours away from me and close to Corpus Christi and the family has been itching to go to the beach. Thoughts forming...
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